I agree. The confusion is causing frustration on both sides and is starting to spoil the enjoyment and enthusiasm.
In my view there are three issues:
1. The update system is still confusing (for you guys as well as us in some cases, it seems).
2. Readme instructions need to be clear and complete.
3. There needs to be some sort of quality control before uploading.
I do understand that you guys are not professionals at this and that there are many files to control. I don't think anybody is expecting perfection but I'd like to think the above 3 issues could be improved on.
This is a sensitive subject and yes this is criticism but hopefully it is constructive.